
So, I’m seven months out of a three-year relationship. I’ve been sowing my wild oats for a while now, but I’d really like to meet someone who might be intersted in friendship, dating, seeing where things go.
I’m 37 years old, 6′5″ tall, and weigh 340 pounds. Now don’t get your panties in a bunch about that. Since January, I’ve lost 45 pounds, and am continuing to shrink. I’m committed to getting back in shape. I go on long walks or bike rides every day. I eat right, and generally take care of myself. This picture was taken of me in January 2003 before I started the whole exercise and massage school. I was on a trip to NYC, and you can see that although I’m a big guy, I carry myself pretty well, and like I said, I’m 45 pounds lighter than when this pic was taken.
I just finished massage school, and am transitioning into a new career as a massage therapist. Here’s my massage information page. I’m a strong sensitive healer who is all about you.
I’d like to meet someone who is around my age, give or take 5 years or so, who is masculine, not “straight-acting.” If I wanted to act straight, I’d be with a woman. I am a man who loves men. So, the kinds of men I like are masculine, single, emotionally available, honest, and gay. They are not afraid of being out, but they’re not standing on the rooftops shouting out, neither. I tend to like intelligent men, who care about the world around them, and are doing something to make the world a better place. The men I am attracted to like to be in the outdoors, whether that’s puttering around the garden, or hiking through the Sierras, or somewhere in between. Ethnically, I tend to be more attracted to men of European or African descent, but by all means do not let that limit me, or you for that matter.
I’m a reader, musicmaker, listener, peoplewatcher, theatre-goer, voter, camper, lover and so much more. I’m an adventurer, who will sometimes at the spur of the moment hop in the car and just pick a direction. Wanna come?
Hopefully, you’re reading this right now and thinking that you’d like to meet me. Let’s meet for a beverage, or go for a bike ride along the American River Parkway, or something similar. I open myself to the world.